When I was in high school, I thought that in order for my existence to be validated I had to have a boyfriend. I stopped thinking that far too recently than I care to admit.
Without going into details, I fairly recently discovered that I wasn't happy in the relationship which I was in. Unfortunately when you've invested time, energy, and parts of your soul into something, simply disengaging doesn't seem like an option. It took a while, it took a lot of fighting with myself, but I finally ended it. I'm sure that eventually, he will be just as happy as I am with the decision.
The truth is, I am really not the same person I was 5 years ago, or 7 or 8 or 10 years ago for that matter. If you're a person who is growing in this life, you who are reading should be able to testify to the same thing.
My existence validates itself.
Oh, and I bought a suit today.
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